Sunday, December 13, 2009

First day in the hospital

This morning we took Luie for breakfast with his
whole family. His dad, step-dad, step-mom, all his siblings and I. Today he was to be in the hospital by noon to get ready for surgery tomorrow. He's been a trooper, even when they put the tube down his nose. (He's covering it in the picture) The tube feeds him this clear liquid, that cleans out his intestines to prep him for surgery. This will be an interesting night. I was worried about the 6 hour surgery and how was I going to get through the anxiety of it. I asked the docs if I can be put under for the 6 hours. But with this liquid stuff that they are giving him, he will be going to the bathroom all night and will need my help. So I see myself sleeping for those 6 hours of surgery. Solves that problem. Luie is supposed to be here 5-7 days after the surgery so he will be home with his Dad and family for Christmas. I have faith in the Lord that he will be in that operating room, that he will be guiding the surgeons hands over my son. The Lord brought us to this and he will get us through it. I have faith in that. Amen. They've told us that his surgery is scheduled for 9:30am so we are excited that we don't have to wait all day like we were told. Well we will update tomorrow.






A Little History
My son has been sick for the last year
and a half. He was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis, (a disease of the intestine, specifically the large intestine or colon, that includes characteristic ulcers, or open sores, in the colon)
after his first flare happened in May of 2008. His symptoms started with abdominal pain, blood in his stool and diarrhea. About 2 weeks after his 12th birthday. He was hospitalized with dehydration and anemia, and after so many test, and speculations of what he might have, and hours of Internet research, he was diagnosed with UC, as we call it. They put him on prednisone, a steroid that controls the swelling, and Asacol, 6 tablets a day he would take for the rest of his life. He went home about 5 days later, with a food restriction he was not happy with at all. In July while we were in Disney world he flared again. We came home and went straight to the emergency room. He was hospitalized again. His UC was controlled and 5 days later he went home. He was doing well eating whatever he wanted and with no symptoms. Taking his medications as directed, we even got him one of those little pill boxes to make sure he didn't forget to take his pills and I can keep track. January 27 we ended up in the hospital again. His blood count was extremely low. Oddly enough he had not lost much blood that we'd noticed and his energy level was high until that week. They started with the same routine, the prednisone and IV and it wasn't working. They had to up the dose and give him a transfusion because his blood levels were still going down. He was improving, so they sent him home only to end up in the hospital again, 3 weeks later after having had a colonoscopy done. At that point it was decided that the Asacol was not working so they put him on the next med, 6MP. It takes 3 - 6 months for that med to work so he had to be put on prednisone for 3 months again. At the end of 3 months he flared so they left him on the prednisone for 3 more months. He flared again. 6MP didn't work. The doctors decided to put him on the next medication, remacaid. A med I was not comfortable with it since it can cause cancer. 4 weeks after being on remacaid, he flared again. He should have been healthy for at least 6 weeks. Remecaid was not working either. Luie was hospitalized in November and it was time to consider surgery. We left the hospital after 5 days again, this time with some serious thinking. Luie's dad, step-dad, step-mom and I all discussed it, Luie too, and decided this would be the best thing for him. December 14th they will preform the first of three surgeries. In surgery 1 they remove his large intestine. In surgery 2 they create a J pouch out of his small intestine, and in surgery 3 they attach the J pouch to his exit. The second surgery is done 3 months after the first and the 3rd, 6 weeks after the second. Our goal is he be done by the time he gets to high school.

12 comments:

  1. Oh Z...wishing I could make any of this easier for you. Your strength and Luie's strength are inspiring. I will be praying for Luie and your whole family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you! I will keep checking the blog for updates. Take care, Nancy

    ReplyDelete
  2. This is my first attempt at cyber-prayer.
    Awesome Father, Mighty Counselor, Prince of Peace, provider of all that is good;
    provide steady and skillful hands of the surgeon, the absence of fear for Luie, peace for Z, Justin, Lou and Cherie, comfort for Luie's brothers and sisters and strength for Carmen. And thank you for letting us walk this path with them. We are thankful for the miracle you are going to do in Luie's life. We will give you all the credit. Amen.

    ReplyDelete
  3. Que el Santo Manto de Sanación del Todopoderoso esté sobre Luie y Su Bendición de Paz sobre todos. Amen

    And Amen to "randee"'s prayer as well...

    ReplyDelete
  4. Luis,

    Be strong, stay positive and get back to school as soon as you can!

    Mr.Roche

    ReplyDelete
  5. Dear Z - Keep the faith! I have told you before & I'll say it again...You are one of the most brave & amazing women I know. For being your tiny self - your strength outweighs most! Our thoughts & prayers are with you & the entire family. If you need ANYTHING at all, don't be shy! We're here! You know I love you girl! Luie, you too are brave & bright. Wishing you a quick recovery and sending many **HUGS** from our home to yours. May God & His Angels watch over you today & always. - The Bucolt Family

    ReplyDelete
  6. Zaira, You and I have been friends since childhood and to read your pain, worry, fright and anxiousness makes me sad and I could only imagine how you truly feel. But one thing is for sure you are a strong woman, and you and your family will pull through this. I truly believe little Lu is a warrior, to read and know somewhat of what he's been through is an inspiration for all of us who sometimes need a quick reminder of how precious our health really is. The other Delgado Family is wishing Lu a quick recovery and we are sending prayers your way every day. I am here for you always don't hesitate to call, email, text.

    With Love always,

    Patty and family

    ReplyDelete
  7. Luie -- you are a trooper!! Everything will be back to normal before you know it. We wish you a speedy fast recovery. Make sure you take advantage of everyone waiting on you -- you deserve it!

    Z -- you are strong and I know you will keep Luie strong. Everything will be okay and we will be anxiously waiting to hear from you. If you need anything let me know. Our prayers are with you all. Take care. HUGS! HUGS! HUGS!
    Luv,
    The Barsanti Family

    ReplyDelete
  8. Z,
    You and Luie have been in my thoughts and prayers for weeks. Love you guys. Take one moment at a time and focus on getting rest and finding the inner peace that only comes from ONE. We are here to help as you see fit.

    MUCH LOVE -
    Pam & Jim

    ReplyDelete
  9. Glad things are progressing well. I think of you often wishing you and your family well. Luie keep up your spirits, your so strong.
    Need anything let me know!!

    The Settles

    ReplyDelete
  10. We're so happy the surgery went well! Hope you recover quickly and can get back to feeling more like yourself! We've all been praying for you and your family. Stay strong and keep thinking positive thoughts. Tyler, Trevor & Taylor say hi and send their wishes!!!

    Z - Hang in there and please let us know if there's anything we can do to help! We'll keep praying for you!

    The Tomich Family

    ReplyDelete
  11. hi what are you doing right now?

    ReplyDelete
  12. hey luie! how r u doing? im sorry i havent been allowed on the computer becuz i have had to do chores and i didnt do them. i miss u already. sigh. how r u feeling? did u make any new friends at the hospital? if not, y?? every person walking by or coming in or in the halls should say hi, i would! u shoold say hi to everyone and make like a bigillion new friends. friends are good. that is y I am ur best firend, write? hehehe =p well i hope u r doing like super duper pooper scooper. you know what? i miss u. you joey and me shoold all go to china and walk across the wall, AAAHHH THE PEOPLE WILL GIVE US TEA EVERY SECOND!!!!! ahahaha more friends!! hope u feel UBERLY AWESOME!!!

    love you! brooklyn

    ReplyDelete